The dress code is black-tie optional, which gives guests the option to wear formal attire or something a little less formal. For men, black tie optional entails tuxedos or formal suits with ties; for women, formal floor length dresses, midi or knee length cocktail dresses, or pant suits. We ask that ladies refrain from wearing the color white.

While we love your children, we have opted for an adults only ceremony and reception.

Please postmark the RSVP card sent with the invitation by February 15, 2025.

For our single guests, please refer to your Response card. If the number of guests indicates two (2), then a space has been reserved for you to bring a plus one.

In order to avoid distraction and preserve the intimacy of the event, we ask guests to not use their cell phones during the wedding ceremony, including for taking pictures or videos. Guests will be able to use their phones following the ceremony for dinner and dancing. Please note that there will be a professional photographer and videographer at the event.

Free parking will be available on-site at the Graylyn Estate for all wedding guests.

No, guests are not allowed to bring pets on the property of the Graylyn Estate.

Yes, there will be an open bar.

If you would like to honor the couple with a gift, there will be a dedicated gift table at the venue for drop off. You may also have it delivered to their home (Victoria Worsham, 1315 Harding Place Apartment 530, Charlotte, NC 28204). Please refer to the Registry tab for more information.

4:00 Arrival, 4:30 Ceremony, 5:00 Cocktail Hour, 6:00 Dinner, 8:00 Dancing, 10:00 Sparkler Sendoff

We kindly ask that guests confirm with the bride and groom before posting pictures of them to social media.

Please direct general questions to Tracy Fink <tracy@blushandgraceevents.com>. For RSVP related inquiries please contact Donna Worsham <dlwworsham@gmail.com>.